Code of Conduct

Last updated: July 12, 2026

Six strangers, one table, no host.
It works because everyone follows the same few rules.

1. RSVP like you mean it.YES means you are coming. NO is always fine and never penalized. Just answer honestly.
2. If life happens, say so fast.A quick text frees your seat for the standby list and keeps the table full. Silence is the only wrong move.
3. No-shows hurt real people.Confirm and then skip without a word, and your table eats around an empty chair. That is a strike. Two strikes and you lose RSVP priority for a cycle.
4. Be there at 7.The table starts together.
5. Host the conversation together.Talk with the whole table, not just your best match. Draw out the quiet ones. Phones stay off the table as much as you can manage.
6. It is dinner, not a pitch meeting.No selling, recruiting, or fundraising at the table.
7. It is dinner, not a date.No unwanted advances of any kind. If two members happen to hit it off, wonderful, on your own time.
8. Drink like an adult.Enjoy the wine list. Know your limits. Never drive impaired.
9. Pay your share and tip well.Checks are separate. Cover your own food, drinks, tax, and tip, and treat the staff like members.
10. What is said at the table stays at the table.And ask before posting photos of anyone.
11. If something felt off, tell us.Text the club number. We read everything, and we act on it.

Breaking these rules can cost you your seat or your membership, as the Terms of Service explain. Following them is how six strangers become good company.